"Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." Ephesians 4:29-32
An unforgiving spirit is like an insidious cancer that eats away at a person until it has a devastating impact. But while physical cancer often can’t be seen or felt until it is a real danger, the cancer of unforgiveness often steals a person’s joy for years.
Yet there is a sure healing process for this cancer:
Repentance: You must assume responsibility for your unforgiving spirit toward someone and then have a change of mind. You must ask forgiveness for your unforgiveness, and then you must forgive the person in mind.
Release: No longer should you hold over someone the debt you feel
they owe you. This release is an act of the will. Feelings have nothing
to do with it, though some people sense a "release" of their own at this
point.
Recognition: You acknowledge that the person’s wrongdoing toward
you exposed a weakness in your life. Your resentment, hostility,
bitterness, and desire to seek vengeance are areas God wishes to
whittle away.
Remembrance:You should remember continuously how often God forgives you. How many times have you asked His forgiveness? How many times has He said no?
You cannot truly experience the joy of God’s forgiveness until you follow His model and forgive those who have wronged you. Life is so much sweeter when the heart is tender and not tainted.
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Forgiving One Another
by Charles Stanley
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You cannot truly experience the joy of God’s forgiveness until you follow His model and forgive those who have wronged you.
